The seeds we sow as parents are the words we speak to and about our children. The seeds we sow are our actions as we interact with our family. The words our children hear us speak fall like seeds into their fertile spirits. Our actions in relation to our family and others are seeds for the spirit too. They take root there. They grow there and, someday, they will yield fruit. The questions we should consider early in our children’s lives are “What fruit do I want to produce? What are the qualities and characteristics I want to see mature in my children? What do I have to do, as a parent, to help my children achieve these goals?”
The Bible teaches us that words are very important, especially God’s Words. In Deuteronomy 11:18 19 we find, “Fix these words of mine in your hearts and minds; tie them as symbols on your hands and bind them on your foreheads. Teach them to your children, talking about them when you sit at home and when you walk along the road, when you lie down and when you get up.” The fathers of Israel were instructed to deliver a message to their children. The message was the plan of God for their lives. When the fathers failed to repeat and teach God’s Words to their children, their sons and daughters turned away to other gods. This, in turn, brought destruction upon their lives.
The great breakdown in American society over the past several generations is that parents in our country have increasingly failed to deliver God’s Word in a consistent manner to their children. By their actions, they have also failed to live consistently according to God’s Word before their children. Thus, they deprive their children not only of the instruction they need, but also of the role model after which to pattern their lives. Christianity in America has become a “cultural Christianity” highly diluted by the prevailing attitudes of pragmatic materialism and secular/spiritual pluralism. The message communicated to the children of “cultural Christians” by their parents is no longer clearly based upon the Word of God. It is mixed with personal preferences, materialism, and situational biases. Situational ethics and the attitude that all beliefs are equally valid have pervaded modern thought. This lack of a moral compass has served only to embitter and discourage our children. It encourages the belief that there are no absolute standards of truth or right and wrong. It has caused them to devalue human life. Where there is no consistency and clarity of values, there is no truth by which to chart your course through life.
Where there is no absolute truth, there is no security and no valid means to determine how one should live and plan for the future. Where there are no absolute standards by which to live and plan your life, there is no future. When a child is not given a vision for the future, the whim of the present moment takes precedence in all his decisions. His immediate urge is to find momentary satisfaction and relief from his inability to understand what tomorrow may bring. (Continued tomorrow)
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